with men... don't be swayed by cute

a quote frum Michelle Obama's interview in Glamour... ii thought this was so real & oh so true! & many females should really take her advice!


“Cute’s good. But cute only lasts for so long, and then it’s, WHO ARE YOU AS A PERSON? Don’t look at the bankbook or the title. Look at the heart. Look at the soul…When you’re dating a man, you should always feel good…You shouldn’t be in a relationship with somebody who doesn’t make you completely happy and make you feel whole.”

beaucoup d'amour...
_kii_

maxwell made my year lol

s0o0o0o ii got thee best birthday gyft ever this year!! my babe/weakness/[him] took me to thee maxwell concert :-]... ii had told everyone that ii wanted tix & every time [he] would get into my car, ii would make sure Maxwell was playing on my radio lol. Welp my birthday was on September 8th & [he] took me out that nite...but then ii still knew nothing about thee concert which was gonna be on October 16th... then one day when ii was trippin out and talking about how tired ii was of goin home to LA...

me:: iim not goin bacc for a long tyme. those pple r gettin on my nerves. only goin juss to see my nephew

[him]:: & maxwell right?

me:: nah ii didn't buy any of those expensive azz tix

[him]:: oh... well what are you doing on thee 16th?

me:: nuthin.

[him]:: do you wanna go see maxwell with me?!?

me:: DUH!! YOU GOT THEE TIX?!? fa real?

[him]:: yeah. your birthday present of course.

me:: :-D!!!!!!!!!!!

ii go to concerts all thee tyme, but I've actually never gone on a date to one. & it was a great nite! ii luv'd it so much! & [he] sayd ii was smiling so much that he shuda took a pic lol

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::sumthin to talk about::

"communication... it's thee first thyng we rilly learn in lyfe. funny thyng is: once we grow up, learn our words, & rilly start talkin, thee harder it becomes to know what to say. Or, how to ask for what we rilly need…


at thee end of the day, there are some thyngs you juss can’t help but talk about.

some thyngs, we just don’t wanna hear. & some thyngs we say bcuz we can’t be silent any longer. some thyngs are more than what you say. They’re what you do! some thyngs you say bcuz there’s no other choice. some thyngs, you keep to yurself.

&... not too often... but every now&then…

some thyngs simply speak for themselves"



[.]

beaucoup d'amour...
_kii_

my 1st love

yur there for me. thru all of my ups & downs
& what ii feel you alwayz seem to kno
you fynd thee words. when ii need comfortin
& dry my eyes. that's why ii love you soooo
more than a friend yur mah first love
ii can alwayz depend on mah first love

ii feel lyke ii have known you all mah life
ii can't explain how close we are
when sumthin's wrong you kno how to make it right
that's why you stay close to mah heart
more than a friend yur mah first love
ii can alwayz depend on mah first love

thee first thought in mah mynd
thee chill up my spine
thee melody in mah heart
you are... mah very first love
yur thee sweet lullaby
mah first kiss good nite
thee beat in my heart
music...... mah very first love

more than a friend yur mah first love
ii can alwayz depend on mah first love

w.you in mah lyfe iim not lonely at all
& if there were tears you'd catch them all
cuz you kno mah pain
& you kno mah joy
there's no secrets between us...
only pretty piano chords

thee first thought in mah mynd
thee chill up my spine
thee melody in mah heart
you are... mah very first love
yur thee sweet lullaby
mah first kiss good nite
thee beat in my heart
music...... mah very first love

ii sing bcuz iim happy
thee music sets me free
yur thee sweet lullaby
mah first kiss good nite
thee beat in my heart

MUSIC...... MY VERY 1ST LOVE!

beaucoup d'amour...
_kii_